Mind Hacks That GUARANTEE Your Success!
Practice These 4 Habits to Beat Procrastination and Destroy Self-Doubt
1. Sports pros do these "tricks" - and you should too...
You may have heard the famous proverb that "the first step is the hardest". This is completely true. Most likely you may also have heard about positive reinforcement.
Educational psychologists have researched how to influence people to create results. One effective method to motivate people is through positive reinforcement: encouraging a certain behavior through a system of praise and rewards.
Positive reinforcement means giving something to yourself when you perform the desired action so they associate the action with the reward and do it more often. The reward is a reinforcing stimulus.
Positive reinforcement works because the brain connects the action to the reward, and the idea is that you will repeat the target action in hopes of being rewarded in the future.
A technique you can do for yourself called Gamification is a great example of positive reinforcement in practice.
Gamifying results is something that professional track stars and football players are trained to do. The combination of being motivated by a reward to take action to achieve a result is very powerful.
Gamification seeks to create a similar set of experiences to those when playing games in order to motivate and engage users. Gamification applies the elements of a game to make an activity engaging to drive - for example - interaction, competition and other gaming type behaviours in a non-game context.
Gamification can be very powerful if you are the type of person who is already - or who is open to gaining - the following three behavior factors:
· Do you have the motivation and want to perform the behavior?
· Do you have the ability (and access to all the resources necessary) to carry out the behavior?
· Is there a trigger that prompts you to take action?
This has been described in a nice diagram as follows:
The most important thing though is whether you have all three factors at the same time. Only then will you carry out the behavior you are wanting to achieve.
The motivation is simply the incentive or reward outcome that you will set yourself for achieving your objective. Whether it is a trip to the Caribbean on the completion of a project or something more simile like a meal out at your favourite restaurant.
Understanding what motivates you is so important to life and is key to successful gamification. Sports teams use psychologists and their existing knowledge of the players or athletes to make gamification successful. But no one knows you like you do - so you might be in a great place to already be identifying what motivates you.
But it's absolutely OK if you are the type of person that doesn't know what motivates you or you are worried that you think you don't understand your true driver and if you want a useful resource sheet to get you going then sign up to my newsletter below.
The trigger is usually based on timing - i.e. ensuring that you are at a point when you have the highest motivation and ability to achieve the outcome. Oftentimes the trigger will be when you have a very clear and real understanding of the limitation of resources that is currently preventing you from achieving your objective. This is often the most effective trigger to prime you into action.
Ability is the final factor to take note of. For example, rather than assuming that you have the ability to achieve your outcome you might undergo a training programme or validate your existing skill set through undertaking a proof of concept (like I explain below at #3).
Positive Reinforcement - success builds success
Positive reinforcement is especially effective at establishing new behaviors, but it may not work as well in the long term if you becomes bored with the reward over time.
Positive reinforcement is a practical way to put psychological principles to work in everyday life for great results. It can improve confidence and self-esteem and encourage self-reliance. The benefits are clear.
2. Money Loves Action!
This is one of my favourite sayings. If you take action you will generate a result.
I can hear many of you reading this saying that you are worried about the type or quality of the result that you achieve. Studies show that many successful entrepreneurs have started and failed at many businesses until they hone in on the activity that make them millionaires.
The difference between successful entrepreneurs is very often that they have taken action, had some really educational failures and sought to learn from those failures to make their next venture better than the last. They are resilient enough to keep going long enough to accrue enough learnings to generate a success.
Often this is seen by outsiders as "being in the right place, at the right time" but you would be surprised by how many successful people have, to a large extent, made their own luck by constantly iterating through ideas and opportunities until they position themselves for the big one.
3. Maximise Certainty
One of the main causes of people's inaction is Fear. Fear that their action is going to be time wasted. Fear that they will be looked at as a loser if a project doesn't work out. Fear of not knowing which of thirteen different starting points is the right one to follow.
The only sure fire - certain - thing, is that by taking no action you will not fail. But to put it anther way = you will fail everything because you will not achieve any of your objectives in life. Is this a price worth paying not to get knocked down?
Mostly people take the approach of not trying so not failing for a short period only. Slowly and surely as they see people that did take some risks and getting on in life, those people that choose to take no action will feel that they made the wrong decision.
If you want to achieve the successes that you deserve in life, then you need to expose yourself to some risk - but you can do this in a smart way. A very simple example is by copying architects. When they design a building, rather than simply draw it out, they build a model so that the customer, stakeholders such as investors and zoning specialists can give their feedback. Rather than building the whole building and then getting feedback that the project is not meeting a customer's needs or is contrary to zoning laws, the architect builds a model as a proof of concept to elicit feedback in a low risk, low cost way.
You could copy this approach too. Take a project or an objective that you want to succeed at an create your own proof of concept. How far you go with this all comes down to understanding your own risk tolerance - how much you are willing to expose yourself to the potential for negative outcomes to get what you want in life. I talk much more about this in Your Success Method and how you can identify your tolerance and go about recalibrating your own appetite for risk.
4. Know that no one judges you like you do
This is another Fear based action inhibitor. We touched on this above - when we were discussing Maximising Certainty: Fear that they will be regarded as a loser if they tried and failed.
Failing to start out on a project because you have a fear that you will be judged for a poor performance is a very common reason for inaction.
The thing we all struggled with at some point in life. One of the easiest ways for me to let go of the fear of failure is to tell myself that at some point, it will happen. So what? What’s the worst that can happen if I do fail? How else will I learn, if not by doing, trying, by making mistakes? As long as you keep trying, keep learning and keep getting up when you are knocked down, you’re winning.
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Certified Mental Trainer, Michael Kennedy, has helped hundreds of clients and readers beat procrastination and achieve their life goals and the successes they want.
“Your Success Method by Michael Kennedy” is the breakthrough productivity and success method which will give you the tools you need to develop the simple habits and strategies that will help you stop putting things off and start getting things done so that you achieve your goals.
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